Getting married in Denmark (as opposed to Ireland or SA)

Are you struggling with gathering paperwork to get married to you significant other?

Then Denmark might be a viable option for you.

How we set up in Ireland and other fun parts of the Housing Crisis

 

We were very excited to be given the opportunity to move to Ireland through my obtaining a job offer on a CSEP.

We lived well enough in South Africa but had been looking to move for various reasons and one of them, quite honestly, was that after the pandemic and the riots etc, work just wasn’t going well for my husband and we wanted to make a fresh start financially as well as on all other levels.

We scrimped and saved and came over with just enough to basically get here and keep going for about a month.

Point being – we didn’t have a massive amount of money to just dip into in the case of a crisis and we had to manage our finances very carefully.

 

Managing your Expectations

 

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"Expecting life to always turn out the way you want is guaranteed to lead to disappointment because life will not always turn out the way you want it to. And when those unfulfilled expectations involve the failure of other people to behave the way you expect them to, the disappointment also involves resentment." - The Psychology of Expectations

If your EXPECTATIONS are too high, too wide, that this island will be another or better South Africa, or if you expect that this island is perfect... you WILL BE DISAPOINTED! Its a beautiful life if you let Ireland in.

Drop expectation at the airport when you leave SA... carry your family and your bags... and be OPEN to a new experience.

A message of hope to all spouses of CSEP holders seeking employment...

 

 

If you are reading this then like me you have supported, encouraged and motivated your spouse in their journey towards obtaining CSEP and like me you also know the reality, realization and fear of eventually leaving your job in SA. More so if you have spent years at university and are doing very well In your career and now the realization has set in of either not being able to continue, as you are, or you are not appropriately qualified or there simply are no jobs in your field or work... 

#Our turn!!

 


It was #OurTurn to leave for Ireland on Saturday evening from Joburg, 31 July 2021.